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Wednesday Motivation — It’s Ok Not To Be Ok
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What does a healthy relationship look like?
A healthy relationship thrives when you recognise each other’s differences and…
- When both parties can express themselves.
- When there is mutual appreciation.
- When you are happy together.
- When you and your partner support each other.
- When you make sacrifices for each other.
- When you and your partner have patience towards each other.
- When there is mutual protection.
- When you and your partner feel love for each other.
- When you and your partner feel mutual admiration.
- When you and your partner spend quality time together.
- When you have effective communication with each other.
- When both parties exercise person responsibility and tackle challenges.
- When you and your partner demonstrate forgiveness towards each other.
- When you and your partner are open with each other.
- When you have mutual trust.
- When you and your partner have fun.
- When you and your partner can be yourself.
Regardless of gender please support a positive platform for discussion and dismiss toxic energies.
- encourage your partner to have a voice and reap the rewards.
- Make a stand, escape the revolving negative traps, recover and be free to focus on productive pursuits.
And keep the positive fire burning in your relationship.
Rare Diamond.
Posted in Article, Challenges, Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Health, Love, Marriage, Men, Parents, Personal Development, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Uncategorized, Women
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A King…
September 1, 2016 in Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Health, Love, Marriage, Men, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Romance, Women
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Size Isn’t Everything: 8 Ways to Please Her
HEALTHY SEX
Tuesday, July 19, 2016
Size Isn’t Everything: 8 Ways to Please Her
By Laurie J. Watson, LMFT
In sixteen years specializing in sex therapy, I’ve had only three women out of thousands, complain that their guy’s penis was too small. But I’ve had about a hundred guys worry aloud about their size. If you, like these men, are worried that your length and girth don’t fulfill your partner’s needs, here are a few things you can do:
1. Be a good lover. Focus on her body – not your anxiety. Your attentiveness to her pleasure can make you the greatest lover ever. Learn how to arouse her with time, flirtation, and seduction. Her mind is her most powerful sex organ and will respond to your desire and sexual intensity.
2. Keep your belly flat. You may not have stupendous genital anatomy, but women report getting more turned on by looking at his abs than by looking at his genitals. Also, a big belly makes your penis look smaller because your abdomen appears to absorb penile length.
3. Don’t believe porn. Despite what porn suggests, women don’t actually want huge penises and unending intercourse. Really. Really! Scads of my female patients report problems with too large of a penis.
4. Develop great manual technique. Know what you’re doing. Watch her vulva as you arouse her so that you can really understand her specific anatomy. Women report mind-blowing orgasms with concurrent G-spot and clitoral stimulation – nearly only achievable with fingers.
5. Get good at oral sex. Most women can’t climax through penetration, so she’ll appreciate a masterful focus on her clitoris. Oral sex is as powerful for women as it is for men, so developing this skill is a big win.
6. Be open to toys and dildos. If she loves climaxing with a full vagina but can’t feel enough of you, be creative in fulfilling her fantasies. It’s the spirit of play and love that make sex great. Then, after she climaxes, it’s your turn to just let loose with intercourse.
7. Insert a finger along with your penis. Girth is more important than length because vaginal feeling is most intense for about the first 2 inches. She’ll appreciate the extra stretch.
8. Try a textured condom. Some condoms are designed to add texture, thickness, and length.
No body is perfect, and no body stays perfect. But with a little work, sex can feel fantastic for almost any two-body combination.
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It’s your call!
July 10, 2016 in Challenges, Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Health, Love, Marriage, Men, Personal Development, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Women
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Ask questions!
July 10, 2016 in Challenges, Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Love, Marriage, Men, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Women
Tagged Advice, Affection, Challenges, Choices, Communication, Couples, Evaluations, Feelings, Food for thought, Love, Men, Rare Diamond, Relationships, Romance, Women
Love and relationships.
June 22, 2016 in Challenges, Feelings, Happiness, Love, Men, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Women
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Lovers should be best friends.
June 18, 2016 in Couples, Feelings, Love, Men, Personal Development, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Women
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Romance.
June 18, 2016 in Feelings, Happiness, Health, Love, Marriage, Men, Personal Development, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Romance, Women
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Another tip to add some spice into your life
I came across an article which prompted me to reflect on a case that was relayed to me as a relationships advisor. Let me share a summary of their account, please note the names have been changed to protect the identity of the individuals.
Case 1. Keeping the passion alive
Darren complained that his wife Sarah seemed to have lost interest in her appearance. He declared, ‘I really love my wife and I know we can’t run around naked as before, but when our children go to bed it should be our time, yet it’s not the case! Sarah makes no effort; she might as well be a sack of potatoes. She sits on the sofa in front of the TV wearing those awful tent tops and grandma knickers, eating biscuits and she refuses to be interrupted. Her behaviour is a turn off and it knocks my self confidence, because clearly she has not desire to impress me, I felt unappreciated so I started going out with the lads.’
Sarah on the other hand, remained in oblivion to the red flags. She couldn’t see that her husband was feeling neglected. In fact Sarah was bewildered when Darren told her that he had booked an appointment with ‘Through knowledge gain power Ltd’ to attend a relationship mediation sessions with me.
By the end of the first session Sarah agreed to follow my, ‘Me time plan’ which incorporates making a daily effort with your attire. Within a few months and just a few adjustments in the underwear department Sarah and Darren managed to converse, spend quality time together and rekindle regular intimacy. Eight years later, yes occasionally they do have up and downs as expected but they are still going strong.
I must clarify that as in most cases the couple in question had additional underlying issues that required attention hence I’m not implying that a simply change of attire can fix all challenges within a relationship but men love spontaneity particularly when it involves a treat for them. Sexy underwear, perfume or aftershave can also be useful gift offerings to demonstrate consideration and add excitement to the relationship if the recipient is appreciative.
Posted in Challenges, Feelings, Love, Men, Relationships, Romance, Women
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Pursue stability to secure stability!
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Love.
June 13, 2016 in Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Love, Marriage, Men, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Women
Tagged Advice, Affection, Appreciation, Bleeding, Challenges, Choices, Connections, Couples, Dating, Depression, Feelings, Food for thought, Happiness, Love, Quote, Relationships, Romance, Women
The Sexual Reminisces Book
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Keep the fire burning!
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Actions speak louder than words!
June 10, 2016 in Couples, Feelings, Happiness, Love, Marriage, Men, Personal Development, Poetry, Qoute, Quotes, Relationships, Responsibility, Romance, Uncategorized, Women
Tagged Advice, Challenges, Communication, Couples, Dating, Divisions, Emotions, Evaluations, Expectation, Feelings, Food for thought, Love, Lovers, Rare Diamond, Relationships, Sexual Reminisces