Daily Archives: December 9, 2014

Pillow Talk

Sex and misconceptions

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Why do men cheat? A probing question.

Why do men cheat? A probing question.


Is this acceptable, and if so why?

How do you view this statement, ‘ I don’t know what to do,
I know I’m married but it wasn’t planed, I’m in love with two people at the same time. Both have good qualities and they treat me VERY well. Occasionally I consider breaking up with one of them, but I have a 12 year old son with my first dearest love and the new love of my life is witty and very accommodating. I can’t choose between the two so I am requesting some advise.’

On My Father’s Birthday: A Letter To The Man Who Killed Him

This article really touched my heart. I have shared this and reblogged it. I sincerely hope that others share this essential message too.


Dear Sir,

I don’t know your name, but you killed my father on June 9, 1973, in Stockton, California. My father was thirty-two years old then; I was ten. If he had lived, he would have been 74 on November 29th.

The year my dad ws killed The year my dad ws killed

I am a 51-year-old woman now; my father has not been with me for most of my life, and yet I still feel his presence; I still miss him. When I was ten, and he was killed, I hated you. In fact, I hated you for many, many years. Somehow I got it in my head that you were a drunk driver and killed him while driving drunk. Perhaps someone told me that, or maybe it’s just what a child creates, to make sense of a senseless world. Admittedly, that story helped me for a while. It gave me a place to focus my…

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Relationships- Breaking up?

Inspired by a client’s pain

Relationships- Breaking up?

As I watch him sleep and recover from his inner pain,
I wonder is this relentless journey, one made in vain.
He is my only son and it hurts to witness his wounded emotions dance and play-
But I accept that this is the breaking up process at the end of the day.
I’m trying not to say anything rash or make damaging remarks,
As I don’t want to add further discomfort to the anguish weighing down in his heart.
Sometimes it’s really hard work managing the role of a mother,
Because we have no control over whom our children decide to take as their lover.
It’s hard when they’re in a relationship and things didn’t work out as intended,
To know that they feel so disrespected and offended that they don’t believe their heart can be mended.
It’s hard to stand and observe as they lose weight and refuse to eat,
To reminisce on past experiences and then cry them self-off to sleep.
Please pray for me so that he will hear my heartfelt request,
That he should keep positively focused eat, excise and rest.
Copyright Author Rare Diamond.

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